That's the first way in which I feel I've come back to work with a bump - after 2.5 weeks off I could already do with a few days off, after only two days back. The other way is to do with my pregnancy - I can't tell you the number of people who, after learning that I'm due in April, have said "gosh, you really aren't showing, what a small bump!". I should really let this flow over me, partly because that's exactly what happened with Isabel, but it's getting to me a bit because, in my pregnant paranoid state, it feels like people are suggesting that the baby is under-sized. Actually, I think many are just jealous (I don't want to be a heifer for months, thank you very much!), but having been worried about not feeling much movement earlier on in the pregnancy I just feel like I don't need any suggestions, intended or otherwise, that there might be something wrong. I guess that pretty much 100% of this is in my head, and that no-one is really suggesting that the baby is too small. Maybe I need a t-shirt saying "No comments on size of bump please"!
scholarly integrity in the age of “free speech“.
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That's not a small post - that's a nice neat two paragraph post (like I write)! :)
ReplyDeleteI noticed that your bump has got bigger yesterday so don't take any notice of everyone else. Just remember you most probably don't want a 10lb baby, as I can only imagine, that would be really painful labour!
But, I suggest not archiving the internal thoughts as soon as the Is gets her own email and password!! I wonder if there might have been some mixed feelings when she settled so calmly? A friend of ours said that their youngest son (of 3) saw his mother when she came to pick him up after his first day at school, and said reflectively "Oh, that's nice. You come back, then"
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